Threesome boundaries

With threesomes being one of the more popular sexual activities that people actively “experiment” with, the curiosity about it is large. The threesome is popular among desi folks, of all orientations. But with basic sex education being largely inaccessible, there arises the need to be informed even when exploring boundaries.

When Communication is Comfortable Communication is sex is always crucial. From opening up to a partner about a threesome fantasy, to establishing expectations and boundaries, ensuring a consensual arrangement, to finding out what turns on each person, communication is key to a great threeway. Furthermore, communication apart from initiating a threesome, can also help make a decent exit, with a debriefing where the participants can discuss the experience and share feedback.

Not only is it okay but it is highly recommended! You should have well-established boundaries before engaging in a threesome. You should discuss and set boundaries for everything from positions to kissing and everything in between.

Before the fun of your first threesome can truly begin, it’s important to set boundaries.

Ahead of time, set explicit boundaries about staying in contact before, during, and after the threesome. Is it OK for you or your boyfriend to text the other woman without their partner knowing? How do you want to handle things after the event is over? Is she invited to spend the night? Are you having breakfast together in the morning? Are you hoping to escort her out ASAP? Most couples find it helpful to say a kind goodbye to the third party relatively quickly and find time to connect with one another.